Let Me Explain.

Literally the other day, and I mean, on Sunday, I posted an image to my instagram and wrote about how as a fat person, with a fat body, I didn’t need to be fetishised in order to be viewed sexually. It’s something that I felt needed to be said, and people agreed, but it began…

Free Time.

Well, a lot of us have gained some free time. That sounds weird for me, because I still actually have to go to work as I am designated as a key worker, but also a decision was made to cancel an event I work on, and so things have kinda just dipped down a little….

The Importance of an Unannounced Break.

You see it a lot. People announcing that they are taking time off social media because they need to focus on their mental health. I’m all for it. If your mental health suffers because you compare yourself to others a lot of the time, then yeah, take the breaks. My story is different in some…

In Review.

It’s been a funny little year hasn’t it? It’s also been a busy one, but the good kind of busy, getting things in order, setting up what needs to be set up, getting on with life. I have commented, perhaps too often, on how busy I am, and how it isn’t always helpful, but I…

No Holiday For Me.

It may seem a little odd that I am going to write the following, but really, sometimes things need to be jotted down so then they can just be normalised. I posted this morning on my instagram, about how this year, JK and I weren’t taking a holiday, because we have a wedding to pay…

Don’t Look Back In Anger.

There’s one thing that I do, that some people find weird. Each time I upgrade my phone, I bring along all the photos from my old phone to my new one. That means that I have photos spanning back to around 2011 until present day. I am a nostalgic person, I like to look back…

Brand Deals.

A little while back, I made some comments on my instagram about a make-up brand, specifically aimed at men, who had chosen a bunch of people I follow as their brand ambassadors. My comments were around their choice of people and their ‘lack’ of skills in the area, which was either met with laughter, with…

Gratitude.

When things happen to me, I try and “pay it forward” or at least show some gratitude for something happening. Sometimes, things happen just because of fate or on accident. Being online, writing this blog, posting on Instagram, it provides me with exposure. Do I ever try and use the exposure? Not really. When brands…

Smell Like Me.

Sometimes, not often, I get asked some strange questions – or rather, I find them strange. From people asking me where my clothes are from, to which fragrance is a favourite, people reach out and ask things fairly regularly. So, I figured, why not shift focus a little and talk about one of these topics….

Drop.

There’s always inevitably a story like this, and I have really considered writing about it because in one respect, it isn’t worth my time, but in the other, I have an inexplicable need to justify myself sometimes. The tale is as old as time; you make a friend, you go through some tough times together,…