Let Me Explain.

Literally the other day, and I mean, on Sunday, I posted an image to my instagram and wrote about how as a fat person, with a fat body, I didn’t need to be fetishised in order to be viewed sexually. It’s something that I felt needed to be said, and people agreed, but it began…

Free Time.

Well, a lot of us have gained some free time. That sounds weird for me, because I still actually have to go to work as I am designated as a key worker, but also a decision was made to cancel an event I work on, and so things have kinda just dipped down a little….

The Importance of an Unannounced Break.

You see it a lot. People announcing that they are taking time off social media because they need to focus on their mental health. I’m all for it. If your mental health suffers because you compare yourself to others a lot of the time, then yeah, take the breaks. My story is different in some…

In Review.

It’s been a funny little year hasn’t it? It’s also been a busy one, but the good kind of busy, getting things in order, setting up what needs to be set up, getting on with life. I have commented, perhaps too often, on how busy I am, and how it isn’t always helpful, but I…

No Holiday For Me.

It may seem a little odd that I am going to write the following, but really, sometimes things need to be jotted down so then they can just be normalised. I posted this morning on my instagram, about how this year, JK and I weren’t taking a holiday, because we have a wedding to pay…

Blocked.

You may have seen or heard it by now, but there is an account on twitter going around blocking members of the LGBTQIA+ community, even before ever interacting with them. I’m not going to name the account, I’m not going to give them that exposure, but you should know if you are even a casual…

Check On Your Fat Mates.

It’s warm. It’s more than warm. It’s hot. The UK is currently experiencing a heatwave, and even though the Sun isn’t always shining, those pesky clouds are trapping in all the heat to what feels like unbearable levels. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t like being cold either, but a nice middle ground is…

Don’t Look Back In Anger.

There’s one thing that I do, that some people find weird. Each time I upgrade my phone, I bring along all the photos from my old phone to my new one. That means that I have photos spanning back to around 2011 until present day. I am a nostalgic person, I like to look back…

I Can Be Mad (Pt II.)

Welcome to the second half of this two part post this Pride month. This post explores a different issue but a real issue nonetheless, and I again, risk angering people for writing it, but I also don’t really care because…I’m mad, you can be mad too, come scream at me, we good because I am…

I Can Be Mad (Pt. I)

It’s Pride Month. I mean, not for my actual city, but it’s the start of the main bulk of Pride events, but also the month of June marks the anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising as well as other key events in Queer history. At the moment, it honestly seems that you can’t escape a story…